Private by design.
Built around your child.
One question a day, built from their game. After 10 answers, a private Portrait — in their own words — that only you can see.
Our Game™ is a reflective conversation tool. It does not diagnose, treat, assess pathology, replace therapy, or certify parenting decisions.
How your data is stored
Your email, purchase, and account identity. Yours to control — delete anytime.
Name, age, all answers, insights. Completely private. Never included in emails or shared automatically.
Processed securely by Stripe. We never store card details. One-time payment, no automatic renewals.
We never sell child-related data or use answers to target advertising. Ever.
Private by design. Social by choice.
Your child never signs in. Their answers never leave your account unless you choose to share — and only what you choose.
What this product is and isn't
You can start without
understanding the game.
"I only know that she plays Roblox."
Name the game your child plays. That's it. You don't need to know how it works.
Every question is shaped by the game, their age, and what they said last time.
After ten answers, we find the patterns. In their language, not ours.
Each question is built around their game, their age, and their previous answer — not a generic script. You ask; we write what to ask.
Everything your child says is stored verbatim in their private Portrait. You can read back any answer, any time.
The Portrait identifies the moment that creates conflict — stopping, losing, sharing — and gives you a specific, evidence-backed way forward.
Curiosity, Creativity, Resilience, Autonomy, Empathy, Social — each scored from what your child actually said, with the quote it came from.
Once the Portrait is complete, you join a private parents' club. Read real stories from families who have finished. Share your own if you choose to.
Built with clinical psychologists.
Grounded in real practice.
Every question in Our Game™ was developed and reviewed by licensed child psychologists and developmental specialists. The methodology is not a clinical tool — it's a structured way for parents to notice what's already there.
More than 12 psychologists and child development specialists contributed to the question framework and signal methodology.
Dr. Ian Reed, Ph.D.
Our Game™ is built on the methodology developed by Dr. Ian Reed — a licensed child psychologist and dad of one child who spent years finding a way to connect with his own son through the games he loved. That work became the book The Games Children Play, co-authored with Dr. Helen Winter.
Every question in Our Game™ reflects his clinical research on how children communicate through play — and how parents can listen in the same language.