For parents · By child psychologists

Every game tells a story
about your child.

We teach parents how to read the digital world. Stop fighting the screen and start understanding the psychology behind it.

10 personalised questions

Real conversations, not scripts

Completely private

Works with any game

Parents' club access after Portrait

Developmental signals with evidence

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How Our Game™ works

From their favourite game to a deeper understanding.

Step 01 · What they return to

What game does your child go back to the most?

Minecraft

Roblox

Fortnite

Brawl Stars

Among Us

Other

Your question for today · Day 3

Shaped around Minecraft · Based on yesterday's answer

You said you always come back — what is it that keeps pulling you in?

Ask this today, in your own words — at the dinner table, on a walk, whenever it feels natural.

Your child said · Day 3

Type or paste their answer below

"Because I always have something left to build."

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What this may tell you

He is motivated by unfinished ideas — not the game itself.

Stopping mid-build feels like interrupting a thought. The game is a workspace, not entertainment.

Creativity

88%

Autonomy

82%

Resilience

65%

Game Portrait · First edition complete

Daniel · Minecraft · 10 answers · Age 8

He builds to keep an idea alive — and finishes only when it feels entirely his own.

91%

Creativity

82%

Curiosity

68%

Resilience

88%

Autonomy

73%

Empathy

44%

Social

"Someone who notices the details."

Answer 10 · when asked who he'd show his world to

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Why it works

Games are where children feel safest to talk.

When you ask about a game, you're asking about something they already love. That's not a trick — it's how trust is built. Our questions are designed to travel from the game into the things that really matter.

Loved by parents worldwide

What parents say after 10 days.

"He paused the game and talked to me for forty minutes. I expected one word. He asked me a question back. I didn't know what to say."

Sarah M.

United States

Minecraft

"The house he keeps rebuilding finally made sense. I thought obsession. The Portrait said thoroughness. Completely different thing."

Jess H.

Canada

Minecraft

"I asked one question and she talked for twenty minutes straight. About her team, about what she hates about losing. I had no idea any of this was there."

Tomasz W.

Poland

Fortnite

"She showed me her Minecraft world for the first time. She has been building it for eight months. She never showed anyone. Until now."

Priya K.

Australia

Minecraft

"Dinner ended without shouting tonight. Small thing. But it has not happened in months. One question changed the whole evening."

Anonymous

Germany

Roblox

"We always fought about stopping. After the question, he explained it himself. I understood for the first time why it was so hard for him."

Marie D.

France

Fortnite

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Credentials

Ph.D. in Clinical Psychology

20+ years with kids & families

Created by a child psychologist

Hi, I'm Dr. Ian Reed.

As a psychologist and dad, I've spent 20+ years helping parents build stronger relationships with their kids.

Our Game turns screen time into connection time, so you can understand your child's world and be there for what matters most.

Ph.D. in Clinical Psychology

20+ years of working with kids & families

Dad of one child

Author of The Games Children Play

The team

Built with clinical psychologists.
Grounded in real practice.

Every question in Our Game™ was developed and reviewed by licensed child psychologists and developmental specialists. The methodology is not a clinical tool — it's a structured way for parents to notice what's already there.